Thomas S. Monson once said, "Sometimes courage is the quiet voice at the end of the day saying, 'I will try again tomorrow.'"
I feel that voice pretty loudly in my head tonight. I've decided raising a two year old is really hard. There are some days that I feel like a complete failure. There are some days that I feel like I've ruined my son forever. There are some days that I feel like it might be better if Logan had a different mother, someone more fun, more creative, more kind, more patient, more _________ (fill in the blank).
Today was one of those days. Not really for any one particular reason. I think day light savings played into it. I think my lack of a good night's sleep played into it. I think pregnancy hormones played into it. But I was not a great mommy today. I let Logan watch too much TV today. I called Logan a "dummy" today (jokingly, but still....). I fought with Logan for over an hour to take a nap today, which ended in no nap and both of us in tears today. I let Logan eat 3 packages of fruit snacks, a cup of fruit loops, and a chocolate bar today. I lost my temper on multiple occasions and yelled today. I was not the mother I want to be today. I was not the mother my little man deserves today.
And at the end of the day, my little boy finally asleep in his bed, I feel pretty bad about myself. But I do take courage in the fact that I get another chance tomorrow. Tomorrow, I can turn off the TV and take Logan outside to play instead. Tomorrow, I can tell Logan how smart, wonderful, and good he is. Tomorrow, I can try again at nap time, but not freak out if he won't sleep. Tomorrow, I can feed him fruits and vegetables all day (ok, maybe one chocolate bar). Tomorrow, I can be more patient, loving, and kind. Maybe I failed my little boy today, but I can succeed tomorrow. He's not ruined forever, right?
Logan is a an amazing little boy! I'm so lucky that he is mine. I love him enough to try again tomorrow. I love him enough to face tomorrow with a fresh attitude and new courage. I love him enough to try to become a better person and mother. After all, I'm the only mother's he's got, and I only get one shot to raise him. I owe it to both of us to take the good with the bad, learn from my mistakes, and make each day better than the last.
Here's to tomorrow!
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