As you will recall I've done a number of posts about trying to meet other mommy friends since becoming a stay at home mom in a new area. Well, I'm happy to report that I have made a number of friends in the area and am maybe getting better at the dating scene?? At least I know "the lingo" and "the dress code" now.
All conversations at the park start exactly the same way. Asking how old their kid is. Then you say whether they are big or small for their age. Then they ask about your kid. And then you go from there talking about what milestones they've hit, where they are from, etc. And I've learned that whenever you are going anywhere other mothers will be, you should shower, wear your cutest jeans and scarf, and wear at least a little make-up. Ya know, pretty much like regular dating. Except you have to make sure your kid is also clean and wearing cute clothes, or at least wearing clothes at all.
Anyway, meeting people at the "park scene" doesn't happen as much now as it used to due to colder weather and play dates with actual friends. With permission, here's a rundown on 2 of my best friends here in Virginia.
Eileen and her kids, Olivia (Livi) and Lucus. I think I referred to Elieen, Livi, and Lucas as Hailey, Elizabeth and Ryan previously (Man I'm really bad at making up names!). Eileen and Regine were really good friends and were sweet enough to let me into their little group! Eileen and I now hang out independently often. I really get along with Eileen and she is my wonderful workout buddy. We try to workout everyday, which means it happens about 3 times a week. And our kids? Well, I'm pretty much planning Livi and Logan's wedding. They are always playing together and sneaking off into rooms alone. He gives her kisses and hugs all the time. Anyway, we have to keep an eye on those two! And Lucas? Well Logan and him get along well also. Eileen and I agree on a lot of things about life and parenting. Our husbands also get along well. Basically, I have the best friends around!
Here's some pictures from our time together:
Lucas and Livi at the park |
Halloween Party (Regine and Ryder, Eileen and Lucas, Me and Logan) |
It's so fun when we catch them all playing well together! |
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